I was definately going to listen to your advice, since what you've advised for me so far has been very good(such as Return on Leafeon and other movesets). Also, since Air Slash is Special, it would make sence for Togekiss and it has flinching abilities. I wouldn't have thought of Thunder Wave, but It is good a good choice.
Hustle is a dumb effect for Toge-anything, as they have aweful attack... lowering accuracy is just dumb.
I'll probably put Leftovers on Togekiss(BTW, where do I find this?)
Current Team:
Empoleon lv 76
Leafeon lv 79 (it learned swords dance naturally

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Weavile lv 73 (Packs a punch but can't take a hard hit)
Electivire lv 64
Magmortar lv 49
Togetic lv 38 (since I had to start over from the one with hustle...)
When should I evolve Togetic?
You can find Leftovers on wild Munchlax, or as a random hold object if your Pokemon has the Ability "Pickup" and is somewhere between Levels 81-100. Or you could transfer one from Emerald.
If you're going with Paraflinch Togekiss, it really doesn't matter when to evolve it.
thanks. I think I'll go with importing from emerald. seems to be the easiest...