QUESTION: Would you rather have a small list of intimate of friends to help you out, or a big list of a lot of different people?
I can answer that, but not the other questions. Small lists are better. you can keep track of your friends better. I may have a list full of 100, buts that because I get way too many requests and have stopped answering them because it;s VERY tiresome.
Accept those that you know, and if you have less than 50, you can see the MLNer's faces.
Keep a small, clean list... it helps a lot. Especially with loading.
